“Putting ‘RELATE’ back into RELATIONSHIPS!”

Spelling it out for your man   .   Spelling it out for your career


Spelling It Out for Your Career
Insider Secrets to Living Your Dreams and Passions

SIO Career


Once upon a time, people were inspired by their careers. They were ambitious and set out to pursue their dreams with conviction and enthusiasm. Then something happened. They were told they couldn’t and shouldn’t try. Something failed. They were led to believe their ideas were bad, and success was unlikely. Confidence faded and soon they lost sight of WHY it mattered. Though defeated, and becoming accustomed to the status quo, deep inside, they were convinced there had to be more to life…

Based on true life experiences, Spelling It Out for Your Career offers a candid and inspiring view of possibility, with insightful justifications as to why you absolutely can NOT die without sharing the gifts you have to give.

“Insightful and grounded in truth, O’Connor reveals that success is no secret, when you tap into your true potential. A must read for any entrepreneur!” –Aria Cunningham, Producer and Author of “The Princess of Sparta: Heroes of the Trojan War.

“Reading this book helped me to renew my passions and has given me the motivation I needed at a time when I was at a career crossroads! Such an easy read, I breezed through it and could not put it down! Thank you, Julieanne! –Fanci Sue, Program Director, World Institute of Sustainability and Education

Spelling It Out for Your Man
Insider Secrets to Sex, Love and Attraction



Once upon a time… In the fairy tales, people risked it all for love, and couples lived happily ever after.Then something changed…

People became comfortable, bored, even lazy, and began misinterpreting the most basic forms of communication. Suddenly humans were lost, and the most common happily-ever-after was post-break-up. Yet there was still HOPE!

Based on the consistently repeated mistakes of many, Spelling It Out For Your Man offers a non-judgmental view of the exploration of what’s really going on in the minds of men and women regarding sex and love, as well as what moves people to attract and stay attracted to one another.
“Excellent Book! The author has a tremendous understanding of how men and women think. This book should be required reading for young singles because of the insights it gives, which they might otherwise receive later in life, or not at all. The author also has a lively writing style and a sense of humor which makes the book not only informational but enjoyable.”
–Robert T Johnson, Napoleon Hill Foundation

“I would like to thank Julieanne for this book. I enjoyed the candid and truthful insights which came from various people, ages, and stages of relationships. They spoke to me because I’ve experienced many of the things stated in these pages. Funny and to the point, this book praises the beautiful women we are and reminds us to revel in our beauty, sexuality, confidence, and intuition. This book isn’t about ‘catching’ a man, rather releasing a man to be who he is and free to choose what he wants. My favorite quote: “Be willing to walk away before you arrive” – a powerful approach to relationships. Faith in our own self worth and as independent beings, deserving of exquisite love. Quite simply, “Spelling It Out For Your Man” is about understanding, learning and finessing the manner in which to express our needs as women so that we and our mates can enjoy relationships fully.” 

–Carla Moreno, Writer for The Huffington Post


Do you want your cake and to eat it too? Heck yah, so do I!

Are you in love, lust, heartbroken or bored? Well.. Who isn’t?

Did you know that in Bali, men believed a woman would immediately fall in love if her suitor fed her a certain kind of leaf incised with the image of a god who sported a very large penis?* Let’s face it.. Love and sex are international obsessions!

Millions of people fall in love every day (men with women, women with men, women with women and men with men). Hearts are regularly crushed. Some people have hot and torrid affairs, and some simply live it up (leaving a trail of devastation in their paths). Some people squash their natural impulses in a state of guilt, many settle, and the majority secretly obsess about someone they love or can’t have. Powerful untapped intimacy skills are lying dormant inside every human being.


Spelling It Out for Your Man is for both Men and Women.

Life is messy. Love is messier.
—Catch and Release

The differences between men and women are text book. Black and white. Crystal clear. Variations merely lie in the levels of femininity or masculinity that each of us possess. So why do so many people continue to make repeated mistakes that push others away time and time again? And why are so many people irrepressibly attracted to the seemingly worst possible partners? What makes someone attractive? And why is it that the most allegedly “perfect couples” break up?

Curious how to please your partner or wish you could convince them to please YOU? Spelling It Out for Your Man is a “how-to” book in the most bold sense of the description. With insights on simple but unnoticed mistakes that offenders frequently make, Spelling It Out for Your Man gives insider secrets with inspiring tactics on how to attract a desired partner, how to play the game of hooking someone and how to keep them happy and wanting more.

“It’s impossible” said pride.
“It’s risky” said experience.
“It’s pointless” said reason.
“Give it a try” said the heart.

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*(Fisher, Helen. 1992. Anatomy of Love:  A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray.  New York, NY: Ballantine Books.)